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		<title>By: Jacq</title>
		<link>http://www.raptitude.com/2009/09/whats-your-problem-and-why/#comment-16650</link>
		<dc:creator>Jacq</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2011 13:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David, what you describe is pretty common with gifted kids.  Hold yourself back so you don&#039;t stand out, fit in and don&#039;t get teased...  Have a read through Carol Dweck&#039;s book: Mindset.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David, what you describe is pretty common with gifted kids.  Hold yourself back so you don&#8217;t stand out, fit in and don&#8217;t get teased&#8230;  Have a read through Carol Dweck&#8217;s book: Mindset.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jacq&#180;s last [type] ..<a class="7496f0352c 16650" rel="nofollow" href="http://singlemomrichmom.com/oops-almost-forgot-about-father%E2%80%99s-day/">Oops, almost forgot about Father’s Day</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jacq</title>
		<link>http://www.raptitude.com/2009/09/whats-your-problem-and-why/#comment-16649</link>
		<dc:creator>Jacq</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2011 13:32:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I HAD to see the end of things before I started, in detail. So I didn’t start a lot.&quot;

Daniel - this is a common characteristic of people with a personality profile of INTJ (Myers Briggs).  It&#039;s not a bad thing when you use it with purpose.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I HAD to see the end of things before I started, in detail. So I didn’t start a lot.&#8221;</p>
<p>Daniel &#8211; this is a common characteristic of people with a personality profile of INTJ (Myers Briggs).  It&#8217;s not a bad thing when you use it with purpose.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jacq&#180;s last [type] ..<a class="50bb0141d6 16649" rel="nofollow" href="http://singlemomrichmom.com/oops-almost-forgot-about-father%E2%80%99s-day/">Oops, almost forgot about Father’s Day</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Rose Siboney LaLuz</title>
		<link>http://www.raptitude.com/2009/09/whats-your-problem-and-why/#comment-13718</link>
		<dc:creator>Rose Siboney LaLuz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 01:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One Thousand Thank Yous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One Thousand Thank Yous.</p>
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		<title>By: Louie</title>
		<link>http://www.raptitude.com/2009/09/whats-your-problem-and-why/#comment-7583</link>
		<dc:creator>Louie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 02:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The world needs more people like you. Good Luck David!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The world needs more people like you. Good Luck David!</p>
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		<title>By: Help</title>
		<link>http://www.raptitude.com/2009/09/whats-your-problem-and-why/#comment-6200</link>
		<dc:creator>Help</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 02:17:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the most important question of all - as you stated is: &quot;When did that start happening?&quot;  Most people never look there.
.-= Help&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.drug-addiction-help.org/drug-addiction-help/how-to-get-fast-drug-addiction-help/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to get fast drug addiction help&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the most important question of all &#8211; as you stated is: &#8220;When did that start happening?&#8221;  Most people never look there.<br />
.-= Help&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.drug-addiction-help.org/drug-addiction-help/how-to-get-fast-drug-addiction-help/" rel="nofollow">How to get fast drug addiction help</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Daphne</title>
		<link>http://www.raptitude.com/2009/09/whats-your-problem-and-why/#comment-5606</link>
		<dc:creator>Daphne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 17:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for sharing this post. I am on a similar journey and I look forward to learning from you as I read more about yours. Kudos for seeking a better you!
.-= Daphne&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://daphneanddonald.blogspot.com/2009/09/willingness-to-fail.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Willingness to Fail&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for sharing this post. I am on a similar journey and I look forward to learning from you as I read more about yours. Kudos for seeking a better you!<br />
.-= Daphne&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://daphneanddonald.blogspot.com/2009/09/willingness-to-fail.html" rel="nofollow">Willingness to Fail</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Vijay - Meditation Techniques Guide</title>
		<link>http://www.raptitude.com/2009/09/whats-your-problem-and-why/#comment-5481</link>
		<dc:creator>Vijay - Meditation Techniques Guide</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 04:46:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post! Well said - &quot;You Have to Figure Out the Why to Get the What Right&quot;. It is really important to introspect within and ask ourselves why we need a certain change. If that&#039;s absolutely clear, then the &quot;How&quot; and &quot;What&quot; are easily sorted out.
.-= Vijay - Meditation Techniques Guide&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.meditation-techniques-guide.com/links2.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Related Links &amp; Resources&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post! Well said &#8211; &#8220;You Have to Figure Out the Why to Get the What Right&#8221;. It is really important to introspect within and ask ourselves why we need a certain change. If that&#8217;s absolutely clear, then the &#8220;How&#8221; and &#8220;What&#8221; are easily sorted out.<br />
.-= Vijay &#8211; Meditation Techniques Guide&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.meditation-techniques-guide.com/links2.html" rel="nofollow">Related Links &amp; Resources</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 02:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember in grade school, somebody mentioned something about people who fear success. I thought, how ridiculous, that&#039;s like being afraid of ice cream. Everybody loves success.

But it does come at a cost, and ironically it had become really taxing on me and I was already avoiding it. 

I&#039;m trying to be more forgiving of myself too. I have struggled with personal productivity and discipline, and there are some days when I totally forget to tell myself that it&#039;s okay not to be on top of everything. Sometimes that&#039;s all it takes: just telling yourself that you&#039;re fine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember in grade school, somebody mentioned something about people who fear success. I thought, how ridiculous, that&#8217;s like being afraid of ice cream. Everybody loves success.</p>
<p>But it does come at a cost, and ironically it had become really taxing on me and I was already avoiding it. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to be more forgiving of myself too. I have struggled with personal productivity and discipline, and there are some days when I totally forget to tell myself that it&#8217;s okay not to be on top of everything. Sometimes that&#8217;s all it takes: just telling yourself that you&#8217;re fine.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 02:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey thanks Dawn. I&#039;m honored to be a part of your office.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey thanks Dawn. I&#8217;m honored to be a part of your office.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 02:14:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Stephen. What&#039;s weird is that all of this analysis came after the fact. I never really knew why I did what I did; like you say, it&#039;s just not something I thought about at the time. 

You&#039;re right, this post really did seem to strike a chord with a lot of people. The more I write about human beings the more I realize we&#039;re all dealing with the same forces in life, more or less.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Stephen. What&#8217;s weird is that all of this analysis came after the fact. I never really knew why I did what I did; like you say, it&#8217;s just not something I thought about at the time. </p>
<p>You&#8217;re right, this post really did seem to strike a chord with a lot of people. The more I write about human beings the more I realize we&#8217;re all dealing with the same forces in life, more or less.</p>
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