Music produces a kind of pleasure which human nature cannot do without. ~Confucius
I just took a look at CNN’s site and it was, as usual, boasting its favorite palette of troublesome nouns and verbs. Terror, death, murder, destruction, Bush. People do bad things sometimes; it’s not really news, I know. But contrary to popular notions, I think war, exploitation and violence are not the results of our differences. Rather, they are the result of our most pervasive similarity: that we all suffer, and none of us want to.
No, these ‘news’ items aren’t new. They are the same patterns of anguish that have recurred continually throughout all cultures, across all generations: lost love, fear, alienation, self-loathing and jealousy. Being human just hurts sometimes. Despite our surface differences, we’re all in the same boat. We all want the same two things: to fulfill our desires and to avoid suffering. These two motivations, and the behavior they inspire, comprise the human condition. There is nobody on this earth with whom you don’t have at least those two things in common.
Linguistic and cultural barriers keep us from recognizing these two universal similarities in others, but there is a human invention that can circumvent all that. Music has been touted as the universal language, not only because all cultures create and celebrate it, but because music expresses themes that are truly universal: beauty, love, pain, and everything else it means to be human. As a communication medium it is unmatched at conveying emotion.
I find it fascinating, but also completely unsurprising, that music has developed in every single human culture. There seems to be an immutable need in our very DNA for us to find some way of expressing ourselves in rhythm. I am not much of a dancer, but when I hear music I feel a very visceral, physical urge to move my body to it. Whether you believe we’re products of evolution or divine creation, there is no question that there exists within us a deeply-rooted need to let our emotions resonate with rhythm. It’s a language we all know.
Music unites us by telling stories with which we can all identify. We all know love. We all know heartbreak. We all know what they feel like, and what they sound like. Right at this moment, in every town in every country, there are people tapping their feet, sharing smiles, sobbing into their pillows, and falling in love to the sound of music.
I’ve compiled a short list of songs that, to me, embody the universal theme of what it means to be a living, breathing, loving and hurting human being.
Before you listen I have two requests.
First, I politely ask that you don’t ’scan’ the songs, listening for a few seconds and then skipping to the next one. Listen or don’t listen. If you don’t have time right now, bookmark this post and listen later. Halfhearted listening is not listening. Pay attention to the words. These are people’s heartfelt stories.
And secondly, turn up the volume. This is imperative.
We’ll start off with something familiar.
Gimme Shelter – The Rolling Stones
A dark testament to the desperate human need for security. Off 1969’s Let it Bleed, Gimme Shelter is a shining example of that visceral rock beat, and it happens to contain what I think is one of the coolest moments in rock: Merry Clayton’s incendiary vocal solo at 2:44. If you listen to nothing else on this page, listen to that. When her voice breaks at 3:03, you can hear the muffled cheer of someone behind the glass in the studio control room.
You can listen here.
Folsom Prison Blues – Johnny Cash
The most amazing part of this song is the crowd. Recorded in Folsom Prison, you can hear the unabashed gratitude in the captive audience. They’re elated to be there. Not to be doing time in prison, but to be there in that moment with the Man in Black, as he sings a little vignette of regret and shame. The rapport between the prisoners and Johnny — certainly no saint himself — is almost tangible in the sound. What a treat it must have been for an inmate, not just to see some precious live music for the first time in years, but to finally hear someone tell their story. You can hear it in their cheers: each one knows he’s not perfect, and that he’s not the only one.
You can listen here.
Country Feedback – R.E.M.
A dismal portrait of a burned-out love affair, Country Feedback illustrates the malignant, unhealthy nature of dependent relationships. Sometimes the clothes just don’t fit right anymore, and you need to be out. Makes my heart cave in like the plastic-bag kid from American Beauty.
You can listen here.
My Body is a Cage – The Arcade Fire
As I was parting with a friend after having a pint at a bar and grill, he handed me this album and told me to listen to it on the way home, but skip right to the last song. I was stunned, it blew me away. My Body is a Cage is a haunting portrayal of the agonies of self-consciousness and self-loathing. Most inspiring though, is the implicit promise that these problems can be overcome. The narrator knows he has the wisdom within him to escape, but for now he is in prison, locked away from his ability to love freely.
You can listen here.
Lives – Modest Mouse
Singer Isaac Brock opens with a fundamental truth about humanity: Everyone’s afraid of their own lives / If you could be anything you wanted, you’d be disappointed, am I right? He understands the Unhappiness Script; that our own Hell comes from inside ourselves. It’s hard to remember we’re alive for the first time, and simultaneously we’re alive for the last time. Why fight this? I like this.
You can listen here.
A Hard Rain’s A-Gonna Fall – Bob Dylan
Saved the best for last. I know I’m prone to hyperbole, but I think this may be the most poignant illustration of humanity my ears have ever heard. This is not Dylan’s most well-known song, but I think it’s a masterpiece.
With gut-wrenching lines like I met a white man, he walked a black dog, and I met a young woman, her body was burning, a young Bob Dylan revealed his profound insight into humanity’s illnesses. He just observed human nature at work, and echoed it back in crystal clear poetry.
You can listen here.
Readers, I would love to hear the songs that speak humanity to you. When I’ve got enough suggestions, I’ll find and embed the songs in a new post.
Rock on friends, our future may depend on it.
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Hey David,
I have been fortunate to have traveled the world. Five continents to be exact and it was a great teacher. No matter where we live or what we look like or what religion we follow, we all want the same things. Music and movies unite all of us.
When I lived in a tiny village in India, I walked by a little hut (it truly was the size of a closet) and the husband was watching a James Bond movie, the theme song was blaring for the whole village to hear and his wife was outside doing laundry by hand and rolling her eyes at her husband. So we are all one.
BTW, an example of how funny life can be in terms of minds thinking alike….I am publishing a post on Monday about how we each have a personal theme song. I guess that is another example of how music unifies us all.
Thank you for the music too! I loved them all!
That made me laugh out loud, Nadia, thank you.
Can’t wait to see your theme song post.
This is a great post. I completely agree with the statement, “Music unites us by telling stories with which we can all identify.” Music is a unifying force and it really does bring people together. Thank you for sharing those songs.
Thank you for reading (and listening.)
Here’s a E.Y. Harburg quote I liked:
Great post and I plan on listening to the songs properly after I send this, but I just wanted to say two things now, before I get distracted:
Well done on the seamless, unobtrusive embedding of the play bars into the post. I’d love if you could share this kind of technical knowledge some day as it’s the kind of thing that stops technically challenged folk like me being able to do all the things we’d love to do in our blogs!
And oh, my goodness – how on earth did you manage to narrow it down to a stunning 6? I tried to answer a post at Nadia’s the other day about a theme tune or at the very least a track I enjoy driving along with. My brain nearly fried and I just couldn’t do it. Couldn’t access them all or process them.
Narrowing it down was hard. But I knew I didn’t have time to do more. In fact, it’s six instead of five because I couldn’t leave any of them out.
As for embedding the players, go to seeqpod.com. Search for any song and a bunch of similar song results will come up on the left side of the screen.
Click on what you would like to hear and it will appear in a playlist on the right. If you hover over it, an Options button appears and if you click it, “Embed” is an option.
It will show you a window with the HTML code you need to embed it.
It is a bit flaky though, sometimes the players just don’t show up.
Thank you! A lot of my favourite ‘life’ songs are Greek so I’m looking forward to checking out if there are international options at seeqpod.
Great post and I plan on listening to the songs properly after I send this, but I just wanted to say two things now, before I get distracted:Narrowing it down was hard. But I knew I didn’t have time to do more. In fact, it’s six instead of five because I couldn’t leave any of them out.When I lived in a tiny village in India, I walked by a little hut (it truly was the size of a closet) and the husband was watching a James Bond movie, the theme song was blaring for the whole village to hear and his wife was outside doing laundry by hand and rolling her eyes at her husband. So we are all oneAs I was parting with a friend after having a pint at a bar and grill, he handed me this album and told me to listen to it on the way home, but skip right to the last song. I was stunned, it blew me away.
Hmm.
ALL those songs are amazing. I’ve always been a huge fan of REM, Modest Mouse and of course, Dylan. I think each one of those artists really touch on that element of the human condition. One other band you may want to check out is Sigur Ros, especially their album ( ). Absolutely beautiful and to me, it is all about human emotion.
Thanks for the fantastic post and blog!
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Hi Dayne. I do love these songs so much. I’ve heard a lot about Sigur Ros, but never sat down to listen to an album, I will check it out.
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I thought of a good song for a number 7 spot on your list, john lennon- working class hero, great list btw.
Hello friend, sorry to tell you this, but at least the very music* of those songs are really sad… allow me to send you a cuban rock song of a cuban movie(directed by a spanish director), the song have english subtitles, you might like it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oorzB0bFoBA
best of luck!
(*) I didnt pay too much attention to the lyrics since english is not my native language and I have some difficult understanding the spoken english on the fly.
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There were several songs that popped into my head when I saw the name of this post. Gimme Shelter was one of them
. I used to listen to that song every morning when I showered, it is an amazing way to start a day. I really don’t think I can express how much enjoyment I get out of it. I’d love to share some of the other that make my list with you. I ask two things 1.) that you do the same and sit and listen, even if you’ve heard them, please enjoy them again and 2.) Let me know what you think! I’ll keep it to a short list, but I have many more if you would like me to pass them along as well.
I couldn’t figure out how to put a link into the pages so just copy and paste in the address bar.
In This Diary – The Ataris
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6sxmWILUsI
Always Coming Back Home To You – Atmosphere
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKYVs9OoFFU
Thousand Mile Wish – Finger Eleven
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5X6sOr9HdA
Holy Ground – Kan’Nal, players is on the top right. Space Child is awesome too.
http://www.kannal.org/
Simple Man – Lynyrd Skynyrd
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9nmCUagw-98&feature=related
Hope you Enjoy!
Great list… I’ll make my contribution here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kta1ZzxYrYw
Lead Sail and a Paper Anchor by Atreyu
Another Modest Mouse song that has always spoken to me is Trailer Trash.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CjwhIzByM3E
although their songs don’t have any lyrics, I think Explosions in the Sky really touches on the sublime side of human emotions. My personal favorite is Your Hand in Mine
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzIK5FaC38w
Great songs!
I’ve always loved Modest Mouse, and I think you’ve just turned me on to Explosions in the Sky. Beautiful music, it doesn’t need words.
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just an idea, i would do it myself but it would be better for this page in particular if you link to custom playlists, say one for spotify for example.
Yes there are probably better ways I could have done it. Spotify looks cool but it is not available to Canadians unfortunately.
was a bit surprised to see modest mouse here, but i’m really glad you mentioned that song because it’s always spoken to me and it helped me in a lower time of my life. it’s just too true.
It really jumped out at me when I first heard it. Great song and great message.
Bob Dylan’s The Times they are A-changin’; is, for me, the most human song ever.
Great songs. I’m glad I was given the opportunity to listen to them through reading this blog. Thanks.
I’ve always found two bands to be particularly beautiful and able to express human emotions without words quite well. They are “Mono” and “World’s End Girlfriend”.
These are all trumped by Jackson Browne’s “Sky Blue and Black.” No truer or more heartfelt song about love (what we’re all really concerned about in the end) or just life in general, how things change and you can never get them back, was ever written.
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I’ll check it out, thanks!
Check out Pink Floyd’s Comfortably Numb from the Wall Live. It tells the story of a person who longs for the feelings he had when they were a child, among other things. David Gilmour’s solo is probably the best guitar solo I’ve ever heard (so make sure its the live version), he really knows how to make a guitar solo speak.
Check out “No Lies, Just Love” by Bright Eyes. Its a true story of the singers experence with a near suicide, why hes still alive and who its written for.
I’d recommend “The Waitress” and “You” by Atmosphere. The Waitress is impossible to hear and not be affected by. Check them both out, You isn’t quite as powerful as The Waitress, but still solid.
I’ve heard great things about atmosphere, I will check them out. Thanks Greg.
Added these songs to my extensive To Download list. Let me add to yours:
Maybe Tomorrow by Stereophonics,
If Only You Were Lonely by The Replacements.
I’m particularily in love with the line “somewhere there’s a smile with my name on it”
Seeing Bob Dylan’s A hard rain on your list really touched me. English is not my mother tongue. When I was a child, pre-school, my brother who is ten years older played a lot of Bob Dylan. It is part of the music of my childhood. A hard rain was always the song I felt most drawn to. It spoke to me though I did not understand the lyrics. As soon as I begun learning English, when I was 15, I returned to the song and it has been a favourite once again.
These are great songs, but why are they all by dudes?
Heh. A few people have asked that. One even asked me why they’re all white. Someone even wrote in to suggest that I have subconscious racist and sexist attitudes that I have to address.
The answer is I just picked six songs I like, and these happen to be performed by white males. (Except for No Shelter, the best part of which is sung by Merry Clayton, a black woman.) On a different day they might have been different.
I find it to be a bizarre issue to bring up. Music is music to me, I don’t care what kind of genitalia or skin complexion its makers have. I’m surprised so many do.
Re. Songs that are meaningful to me, there’s quite a few but off the top of my head how about these.
Seasons in the Sun – Terry Jacks
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cd_Fdly3rX8
Interestingly, I just searched for this on youtube and before finding this clip I found another version of the same song, sung by another singer. Although it wasn’t a bad version and the music and lyrics were the same, somehow it just didn’t have the same effect on me that this original version has, and I mean I really didn’t feel ANY emotion while listening to it, even though I honestly tried to.
But listening to the original version in the clip above, I immediately feel the exact same feelings that I felt the very first time I heard it, which was in 1988 when I was 13 years old.
It seems a sad yet happy song and I find it impossible to accurately put into words why it is that out of all the thousands of songs I have heard, this one instantly attracted me back in 1988, and still does now.
I guess it’s comforting in a way to hear someone describe the sort of sadness and grief that I have felt myself, because it let’s me know that those feelings are not unique to me.
Another one I like, and I must admit it’s for almost the same reasons, is “Sing me a memory”. Rather than try to describe why that one appeals to me, I’ll show you why by showing you this video I put together.
When I decided to make this video from photos of my old school in England (which I loved but has now been demolished), I searched for a song to go with it and typed “memories” as a search term and came up with this song.
That was the first time I had ever heard it, but I just instantly knew it was the perfect song to go with the video, and somehow the words just fit perfectly as if the song had been written about my school, and it expresses brilliantly how I feel about the school whenever I remember it.
Every time I visit England, I still go to the site where the school once stood. Just to be there for a few minutes and remember the good times I had there as an important part of my childhood.
Here’s the video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-pxKGCrtg-E
And finally, in a similar vein, here’s another video I made while reflecting on my childhood holidays at Butlins holiday camp.
The song is “Those were the days” by Mary Hopkins.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZG8MA8K5CQ
Larkin Grimm’s “The Last Tree.” Actually, most of her songs speak to me in a strange, visceral, sometimes manic way. If there is a deeper realization than “sorrows come and sorrows go, that’s all I know,” it’s well beyond me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eFJBaZOwY60
The Gaslight Anthem also deserves a place on this list. “Drive” in particular captures weariness and the will to go on, restlessness and brotherhood.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olwVCye_6Do